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The Power of Laughter: How Humour Strengthens Relationships
Being able to laugh at the same things with your partner creates shared moments of joy and connection.
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Feb 252 min read
Actions based on values
In the context of therapy refer to the conscious choices and behaviours that align with a person’s core beliefs, principles and goals, guide
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Jan 222 min read
Are people who have affairs victims of their own internal chemical system?
Researchers found that about 21% of men and 13% of women reported infidelity at some point in their lifetime. An affair triggers a rush...
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Jan 221 min read
Safety tips and safety plan for Self- Harm
Try: put an elastic band round your wrist and ping it to cause a sting as an alternative method. Use ice cubes – hold them in your hands...
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Jan 221 min read
Reparenting: What needs were not met when you were a child?
- [ ] Challenge negative self-talk - [ ] Regularly test your beliefs? - [ ] Create a positive and healthy self-view - [ ] Establish...
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Jan 221 min read
Some women feel as though they need to do it all.
Juggle a career at the highest level, be the best chief, have the best possible home, the cleanest environment, be the fittest, slimmest,...
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Jan 221 min read
We sometimes find ourselves doing things that don’t fit with our beliefs.
We like to hold ourselves up to certain standards, but our actions do not always match up…. At times, we may gossip yet have a belief...
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Jan 221 min read
Attention Seeking:
We are meant to evolve out of attention seeking behaviours. For some this happens at the toddler stage. If however, their needs are not...
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Jan 221 min read
What is Limerence?
Limerence describes the experience of having an uncontrollable desire for someone. An obsession that consumes a person’s thoughts,...
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Jan 221 min read
Compulsive giving can be a sign of co-dependency.
When we give too much, it can be detrimental to our health both emotionally and physically. It can also lead to a toxic relationship of...
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Jan 221 min read
In the therapy room: There is no place for sympathy and can cause harm to the client.
When you express sympathy, it can lead to feelings of being misunderstood and judged. When we relate with sympathy, we move into...
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Jan 221 min read
In the therapy room: Inadequately trained therapists pose risk to trauma patients/clients in psychotherapy.
Without the right training therapists run the risk of re-traumatising. Clients may shut down and dive into deep depression and cause...
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Jan 221 min read
In the therapy room: Self disclosure
When self-disclosure is more beneficial to the therapist than the client it causes insecurity to the client and the client may feel...
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Jan 222 min read
In the therapy room: The secretive personality.
keeping secrets is a universal experience and can protect your sense of self by keeping good and safe boundaries. Being too secretive can...
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